Disease

From the Old French desaise derives our term for illness or lack of ease.

Five years ago, I had a medical prognosis that had me involved towards surgery. I had an aggressive tumor in my lower jaw. Benign as it was, its nomenclature was hideous. 

In one of my chats, a doctor friend confessed that medical jargon is nothing more but a handle on things that we all grope for ... it is just a name attached to all these mysterious malady.

Prior to my 12 hour surgery, I was given three honest scenarios. Since my lower jaw will be resected and replaced by my right fibula bone, I was to prepare for three unsettling possibilities:

I may not be able to speak as clearly.
I should practice smiling with my eyes.
I may have challenged difficulty to run.

Disease has a way to our inner sanctum. It pushes us right towards a hole. For a season, I believed its darkness instead of trusting the PHYSICIAN who names all things by fiat.

It is merely by grace that I was granted mercy to drop the tag and turn to Christ for help.

I now speak clearly.
I  now smile wide.
I now run fast.

Holy Frat

It was circa 1985.

With mere faith in the veracity of Christ's calling, I resigned from all my then current preoccupations and headed to basic seminary training.

The grant of unforgettable friendships moved me to a place of reckoning on who I am as a child of God.

It is incredible how one gets transformed through the grit of others.

Iron sharpens Iron.

Thank you Al, Chris, Edsel, Alvin, Rommel ... to name a few.

'Fro

Yesterday morning, my daughter calls from NYC with panic tone:

Bianca: Dad! Are you the one with a 'Fro and a funny looking clown tie?
Me: Yup.
Bianca: Ha ha ha! How did this happen?
Me: ( A thousand thoughts racing back to my chaotic past.) I just got a hair perm.
Bianca: Why?
Me: I was a big fan of Cassius Clay, Walt Frazier, Stevie Wonder, and the Commodores.

Ahh, all the things we do in search of identity.

Papa (standing far left, checkered jacket) / Mama (seated far left with my youngest sister Ricci) / Ate Cheryl (standing fifth from Papa) / Tommy (seated at the couch-arm far right) / MJ and Ces (seated at the floor directly in front of Mama / Lolo & Lola (center) / Uncles and Aunts and Cousins shown / + The only guy with spectacles, afro hairdo, organic beach tan, clown Pierre Cardin tie, and super-high waist slacks: In Search of Identity Me. Early 70's