First Love

Divine audacity declares the origin of true love.

A few minutes before my daughter's wedding, I was invited into the Bride-to-be's regal dressing room. Her heart speech muted whatever trepidation I had about her new journey.

She gifted me with an elegant silver tie bar which inscribed the only reason why the wedding took place.

I loved you first.

Nika did not even realize that this was the exact biblical text on my wedding back in 1988.

Ahh, the love of Christ never changes!

Central Point

When all of a man's preoccupations are doing well except his marriage, he will come out into the world with a posture of weakness.

When all of a man's preoccupations are not doing well but his marriage flourishes, he will come out into the world with a posture of strength.

Sketch: David Talaguit / Model shown: Jose Talaguit & Linda Talaguit

Father Daughter Dance

Today I get front seat at my eldest daughter's wedding.

I walk her down the aisle.

I officiate the rites.

I entrust Nika to the bridegroom.

Sometime soon I get another front spectacle seat.

I get to walk down another aisle.

I perform the rites.

I will entrust Bianca to God's choice man.

And the dance continues ... 

Nika, my eldest. Bianca, my youngest. Both the Lord's precious gems.

The Promise

The staggering reality of Christ's promise of guaranteeing God's abiding presence began on Pentecost.

The engagement ring was worn by those who by grace and mercy received His gift.

The Holy Spirit fills all vacuum.

I can only imagine the bliss of the grand wedding eternal day.

Nose Bleed

My wife and I almost perished yesterday.

This could have been the breaking news:

A horrific accident took place yesterday at the frontage road of Plano Parkway and Highway 75. A speeding Cadillac SUV tried to beat a left-only lane t-boning a Mercedes Benz 430 ML dragging it headlong towards the railing of the bridge. The solid impact sent the MB SUV plummet down the busy Highway 75 hitting three vehicles before it burst into flames. The driver and his wife died instantly from the reckless incident.

This did not happen.

Early that morning, my daughter Nika from Manhattan read from Scriptures: "The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him (Psalm 34:7).

At around 3:00 pm yesterday, the application was made in Plano, Texas.

By a most unusual maneuver, I was granted quick intuitive alertness to swerve. The wild driver still clipped my fenders and bumpers. His bumper parts and molding flung in the air, but his resolve not to stop only reinforced his dangerous existence on any road.

I was once told about the grit of the ML 430's 4,552-pound hunk of steel on its rigid frame.

I praise God for it did keep me still. 

It only had some nose-bleed.

Theology of Dress

The first attempt was sewed hastily from fig leaves.

It was obviously a makeshift cover-up.

The redemptive alteration was hand-crafted with leather.

God labored to produce the sacrificial bestowal.

As they dress, I remind my daughters to remember Genesis 3.

Original Haute Couture.

Not merely to cover, but to demonstrate the Hesed (Loyal Love) of our Creator.

Bianca Diwa / Mercedes Benz Fashion Week / photography: @stephenesherman

Ali

The name conjures bragging rights to greatness.

Muhammad Ali was not only a boxer to me. I had his face posted on my bedroom like a fixed mantra.

When father brought home my first Everlast boxing gloves, i just had to strut like a butterfly and sting like a bee.

I somehow think that his lip-swag served as therapy for my shyness into adolescent braggadocio. 

My favorite moment was the genius of the Zaire fight with George Foreman. It was mind over brawn. Rope-a-dope.

The news of his death yesterday pinched hard.

I really hope to see him someday.

I guess, that is not my call.

I don't even have a clue where his ropes leaned on the last few seconds of his final round.

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